The leaves are falling in my part of the world like crazy, so before the snow falls, I want to share a special time I had at the end of summer with my niece Ana.
I have written before on the joys over the years of spending special time with all my nieces. Since God blessed me with only one son, my nieces were gifts that allowed me the fun of shopping, buying dolls, dresses for special events, crafts, all the things you just don’t do with boys!
During our few days together we shopped, for clothes, some extra school supplies, including a silver glitter notebook, and some neon colored pencils. Ana loves “bling”.
I let her pick out her favorite treats, cereal, donuts, Sun Chips, nothing healthy of course, I did say treats. This is something my Grandma would do when I would visit her as a little girl. Such a sweet memory for me even to this day.
We played “Crazy Eights” until I thought I was going crazy, decorated a large wooden “A”, painting it glow in the dark hot pink with black glitter dots, and put together an outdoor place for Ana.
Our days were perfect, warm and sunny, so we set up our “swimming pool” in the backyard.
We came up with a game where I gave her actions to complete around and over the flowing water, so many cartwheels, jumping jacks, and such.
The morning we decided to build Ana a special outdoor place, we first needed to shop for fabric. Ana picked a black and white zebra like print.
Once we were home, we found a rope in our garage, attached it to two branches on the large maple tree in our backyard, and using some bricks we secured the fabric across the rope.
We added a quilt and lots of pillows, and finished up with a chalkboard paper banner, “Ana’s Place”, which added the final touch. Perfect!
We did laugh together and enjoyed our creation all day. I felt like a kid again.
Although Ana also loved time spent on my tablet, playing games, and working with my touch screen computer, watching movies, listening to music, I thank her for spending time with me doing creative things and spending silly time with her aunt.
As this second part of my life is playing out, and Ana is growing up, I thank her so much for being with me for a few days this past summer.
Life has a way of keeping us from our love ones, jobs, relationships, just life and living it our way, good or bad.
I so regret the years that passed and I did not keep in touch with Marissa, Amanda, Dawn, Amber, Carrie, and now Ana. Those years are gone.
Please make time to connect and be with your family as much as you can, even if it is just a call, or text. “I love You’s” mean so much, especially the unexpected ones!
Blessings and love to all!