Category: Living with MS

For The Birds

This post is not only for the birds, but also for my husband.

As I have written before, he suffers from Progressive Multiple Sclerosis.

He has deteriorated this past year.

Walking is impossible without some assistance from a walking stick, and now a rolling walker.

He never complains, but his activities are very limited.

Now that the weather has improved, our back porch is his sanctuary.

He reads, listens to music, puts his feet up for many afternoon naps, and loves to watch the birds in our backyard.

His binoculars are always around his neck when he steps onto the porch.

We have a birdbath, which draws many birds, so I thought I would add a bird feeder to hopefully welcome more to our yard for Jim to watch and enjoy.

I gathered some items that I had, a wood piece, an old tin pie pan, and a wood candle holder.

Cleaned and spray painted all with black paint.

Used screws to assemble, added a hook to the top of the wood piece, and jute to hang on a branch in our large backyard Maple tree.

I added seed, and the birds are gathering.

Pleased with it, especially that I just used items in my junk stash.

I found this $2.00 unfinished wood bird house at the thrift store.

It was in good condition except for a bad spot on the front.

Cleaned, sanded, and painted the house.

To cover up the bad spot I added a decorative knob.

You all know I love to use vintage looking knobs and handles to add a final touch to many of my projects.

Just a beautiful way to finish and complete an item.

Hobby Lobby has a very large selection, 50% off every other week.

I hope to find a special place nestled in a tree that some special little birds might love.

Hope to see some sweet little birds hop on the knob and into their new home.

Two simple, inexpensive projects, completed in just a day, that will hopefully give some joy to my husband, and our backyard birds he loves to watch.

Hope you all are enjoying the beautiful days of spring.

Just a Little Spray Paint

Since my husband’s Multiple Sclerosis is progressively getting worse, it is difficult for me to be away from home for long periods of time, falling is my greatest fear.

So working on small projects every day keeps me busy doing something I enjoy, and still keeping me close to him.

This, sometimes silly and crazy blog of mine, is another way I enjoy my time and stay busy.

I am not someone who can just sit all day.

I just cannot!

Getting up early is normal for me, but a short nap during the day is not out of the question.

Aren’t naps heaven?

I try to live each day keeping active, always being thankful for each day no matter what I am facing.

Today I thought I would share some of the simple small projects I have recently completed just by cleaning and spray painting.

A small wood plant stand, $3.00 at the thrift store, just needed a fresh coat of black spray paint.

It now sits on my front porch holding one of my favorite indoor plants.

After a long winter, my indoor plants need to enjoy the outdoors, those warm sunny days.

How amazing it looks surrounded by flowers with lots of color.

As you might have guessed from many of my posts, I love photos.

I love to have photos of those I love around me.

I never buy new photo frames, they can be expensive. The thrift store has so many for very little money.

Some are in boxes, never used, others just need cleaning and a fresh coat of spray paint.

I loved this frame from the moment I saw it! I knew immediately the photo I would place in it.

It was $2.00, but it was sale day at the thrift store, 50% off, only $1.00. Yes, the thrift store does have sale days every week!

To get the look I love, I sprayed painted the frame with Rustoleum, white chalk paint.

Love the way it turned out.

It now holds a very special photo of my beautiful niece and has found a place on a table in my living room. How lovely!

In this photo she is gathering tulips.

What a beautiful photo!

In this next project, I used a rolling pin I bought for only $1.50. I seriously do not think it was ever used.

I have wanted this rolling pin, pictured below, for so long. It is part of the Magnolia Home collection by Joanna Gaines sold at Target, but it is always sold out.

No matter now, I painted and sealed the handles on my $1.50 find, it is perfect.

This 50 cent, bright green tray, only needed white spray paint and some cute handles to become a sweet dresser tray.

Love the way it turned out, so clean, so bright.

Hope you all enjoyed my simple offerings today.

Hope you all get some creative ideas of your own from them.

Before I end I do not want you folks to think I am a prisoner in my home caring for my husband, I am not.

He encourages me to get out, he may like a bit of quiet time himself sometimes. Time without me constantly asking him, “do you need something” or “are you OK”.

I also have my wonderful son who will be with him so I can sometimes enjoy a weekend visiting my niece and her family in the country.

We spend days out together, fun days, with my sister and brother-in-law. They are so good to him.

I always know that things in life can always be worse.

We all need to stay busy, stay positive, and be thankful.

Love and hugs to all!

My Quiet Place

I have a place I go, a beautiful simple place, my quiet place.

I go there so many times throughout my days, to release stress, worry, loneliness, sadness, and sometimes to have a private cry.

It’s just a small outside corner at the back of my house.

An old, worn, chippy, picnic table, made into a potting bench for me, by my son on Mother’s Day, many years ago.

There is just something overwhelmingly calm about working with flowers, dirt, and old pots.

I am always adding fun things to this area, a sweet little bird, a garden sign, that is probably 20 years old, and of course, a banner of seed packets!  You all know I love to make banners!

How can anyone look at flowers and plants, and not believe in God?

It is rare when my husband complains about all the issues he deals with everyday, living with Multiple Sclerosis.

Yesterday, he told me the pain and burning in his right leg is spreading to his left leg.

What could I say or do?

He will not see a doctor, he does not believe they can help him, he knows there is no cure.

I went to my place of quiet to pray, as I often do, alone.

How can I help him?

I am thankful for this place I go, to sit sometimes, to be still, and know God is with us!

Thanks for letting me share such things, it helps!

Love all of you!

Hope you have that special place in your home, that is yours, to be still, to be quiet.

Have a blessed holiday weekend.

 

Living With MS – Can You Make Cherry Kool-Aid?

My sweet husband has MS and as I have mentioned before, he is deteriorating everyday.

Impossible to walk without his stick, or holding onto walls.

Having episodes when his eyesight leaves in one eye.

Adding to that, his leg is swelling from his cancer surgery four months ago.

Not to mention, the eczema he has on one of his palms, that never stops itching. Never.

Just so much to deal with, praying that there will not be anything else!

His request this morning, “can you make a pitcher of that great cherry Kool-Aid you make?”.

He has it rough.

When he wakes up and starts his day not making me laugh, I know it is an especially bad day for him.

Can I make him cherry Kool-Aid?

Whatcha all think?

In your prayers on this Sunday, could you add one for my cherry Kool-Aid guy?

Please.

With love.

Oh, the recipe for my “great” cherry Kool-Aid, extra sugar, less water, and lots and lots of ice!